1. Be abundant with happiness.
Be a blissful wife. If you want to make your husband happy, you have to have a heart full of happiness. He will not be happy if you are always depressed, irritated, and frustrated in life. Thus, be a more positive and cheerful person. Get rid of things that make your heart sad, such as anger, discontentment, and bitterness. Fill it with hope, thankfulness, and joy instead.
2. Let him lead.
Let your husband take the stirring wheel of your marriage. It will make him feel that you trust and rely on him. It will also give him a sense of responsibility, purpose, and direction in life. However, you have to make sure that while your husband leads your marriage, God is always the center of it. Never let your husband lead your marriage and family in wickedness and destroy all of your happiness.
3. Stop nagging.
If you think nagging will help your husband become a better person and make your marriage grow, you are thinking it wrong. A nagging wife is every husband’s nightmare. If you want your husband to do or change something, stop telling him constantly and forcing him to do it. Your nagging will only make him feel like a hopeless person. It will only make him worse and your efforts will be wasted.
If you want your husband to change, make him happy instead of irritating him. Make him happy by giving him hope. Trust him and let him do his own way. Just continue working on yourself in silence to be a better partner for your husband and hope that you inspire him to do the same.
4. Respect him.
Treat your husband as a man and the father of your children. Do not belittle him in front of your friends, kids, and other people. Seek his advice when you make a decision. Listen to him when he says something and appreciate his ideas or opinions.
Respect is one of the most important things that will keep your marriage alive and healthy. Hence, don’t let anyone (including yourself) disrespect your husband. Always respect your husband and your marriage vows.
5. Be loyal and faithful.
Make your husband happy by giving him confidence that he is your only one. Do not even think about any act of cheating. Make your husband feel handsome as he also makes you feel beautiful. And no matter what challenges come into your marriage, be faithful and hold on to your marriage. Knowing that you will be with him through thick and thin will surely make him feel blessed with your marriage.
6. Be kind to your husband.
When your husband makes mistakes or falls short of your expectations, do not easily get mad and be harsh to him. Men may be a symbol of strength, but we also have a heart that will be broken when the person we love becomes rude to us.
To make your husband happy, be considerate with him. Be his best friend who knows and understands him the most. Be generous with him, not only with material gifts, but also with patience, love, and understanding.
7. Forgive him.
Forgive him for breaking your heart, especially if he sincerely asks for your forgiveness, and shows that he will never repeat the same mistake again. And for petty offenses he has made, learn to just forgive and forget them even before he asks for your forgiveness.
When you forgive your husband, you do not only make him happy but you also heal your heart and make yourself happy. You prevent yourself from planting hatred in your heart and you keep the relationship in harmony.
8. Don’t let pride comes into your heart.
Do not create walls that will block your husband from communicating with you when you are mad at him. The walls you build will only make both of you suffer and experience misery. If you want your husband to be happy every day, always be open to him and talk to him about your complaints and problems.
Pride is one of the top culprits why relationships fail. Do not be overcome by it. Get rid of pride by embracing humility. Be humble to forgive, admit your own mistakes, and approach your spouse first no matter how hurt you are. Remember that humility comforts everyone who receives it. It also blesses everyone who gives it.
9. Be a responsible wife.
Fulfill your marital duties to your husband. Surrender your body to him. Give him the affection he needs. And above all the physical and sexual things he needs from you, give him the spiritual things he needs, such as love, faith, loyalty, trust, and respect.
10. Be a responsible mother.
Women are naturally born to be responsible mothers to their own children. However, being a mother is not an easy job. It’s even considered the toughest job in the world by many. Thus, make sacrifices and invest more time and effort to take care of your children. If you want to make your husband happy, see to it that his offspring are being raised and nurtured by the greatest mom in the world, you.