1. He’s got his eye on you – literally.
Eye contact. We have a million clichés and theories around it, but at the end of the day, there’s an air of mystery surrounding it that we’ll never be able to define. What we do know is that it’s meaningful. It might be flirtatious and fleeting or soulful and long, but either way you’ll always be catching him in your peripheral vision.
2. He remembers important dates.
Have you ever forgotten a friend’s birthday? We all know that crushing feeling of missing an important date. Even when we deeply care about someone, it’s hard to remember every significant detail. So, when the guy in your life makes a point of acknowledging something like this, take note. He wouldn’t ask you how your niece’s twelfth birthday last Wednesday was if he wasn’t purposefully, sweetly, keeping tabs on you.
3. He texts you goodnight.
You always seem to think about the person most dear to you before you go to sleep. Maybe it’s because they’ve been running through your mind all day. Or perhaps you just feel a desire to comfort that person, even if you’re not physically present with them. Regardless of the reason for it, when a guy is really into you, he’ll likely be a big fan of the Goodnight Text.
4. He’s always respectful.
This is an important one. If a guy doesn’t deem it mandatory to be respectful of you at all times, he’s not worth spending the time wondering about anyway.
Respect can be seen in small and grand gestures. He won’t interrupt, talk over, or mock you during a conversation. Even if things get heated, he’ll never treat you with contempt. He’ll respect your opinion even if he doesn’t understand it.
5. He’s eager to help you.
When a guy is head over heels for you, all you have to do is hint at a problem and he’ll be jumping at the chance to help. He might grab you your favorite coffee before work or surprise you by fixing that leaky sink you’ve been complaining about.
6. He prioritizes you.
Talk really is cheap. It’s through a person’s actions that you can see how you really rank in their life. Does he make up last minute excuses for why he has to bail, or does he prioritize you above everything else?
7. He wants to know everything about you.
It’s crazy how, once you like someone, even the most boring detail about them becomes golden. If he mentions his favorite soup is minestrone, you file that away forever. Guys are no different in this respect. He’ll have plenty of questions about you and your life up till this point.
8. He makes an effort with your loved ones.
No matter who you are, it’s always intimidating to meet someone’s circle of loved ones. Even if your friends or family are not overly critical of prospective romantic partners, there’s still going to be some tension. Keeping that in mind, you can see how only someone who’s interested in something real would make that kind of effort.
<span;>9. A guy who secretly loves you will make excuses to be with you
Does he keep waiting for you when he can actually go home? Has he not eaten his lunch because you have been busy? And then he tells you he wasn’t hungry because he had coffee earlier? Classic signs!
10. A guy who secretly loves you will make excuses to be with you
Does he keep waiting for you when he can actually go home? Has he not eaten his lunch because you have been busy? And then he tells you he wasn’t hungry because he had coffee earlier? Classic signs!
If you notice a guy making dumb excuses just to spend some time with you, then you be sure that he likes you. Introverts show their love in soft, subtle ways and rarely make grand romantic gestures to announce it.
He wants to hang out with you because having you by his side is the highlight of his day. When you are around him he does not care about anything else.
11. Flirting with you comes naturally to him
Whenever he flirts with you, it is absolutely effortless. He will use cute one-liners spontaneously, and for some reason, you will laugh them off. It will be light, with just the right sense of humour and tease. This is one of the qualities that women admire in men.
Nothing about your interaction with him seems unnatural to you and you also tend to respond to his advances naturally.
