13 Ways to make him yours forever
Real relationship success is not about making a relationship with someone work when, at your core, you and he are ultimately incompatible. It can be hard to see if you’re blinded by fears of loss, self-doubt and relationship fantasies that you want to come true.
1. Don’t change too much. If you have to change then change for the better. Don’t let your personality, style and character take a downward plunge. This is sure to disillusion your man who loved you for whom you are. Always make sure you keep his interest by being exciting, challenging and beautiful.
2. Put energy into the right places. Creating the foundation for a strong, healthy relationship comes down to putting energy into the correct places. Worrying and stressing is not putting energy into the correct places.
3. Make sacrifices. A good and steady relationship rests on a solid foundation of “give and take”. If your man knows that you are ready to sacrifice for him, he will feel touched and overwhelmed by your love. Prove that you are going to do your part, and he will also respond accordingly and want to be with you.
4. Call him cute names. There is nothing sexier for a man than hearing his name cross his partner s lips. Whenever you make a conversation, mention his name (whatever you call him) often. However, don t make it too often. You need to know to strike the last balance. When love making, amidst all your moans, utter his name and just watch him get turned on.
5. Accept him. If you are ready to take him as he is with all his flaws, then he is bound to know how lucky he is and be yours forever. No one is perfect and it is up to you to let him see that you are ready to make and accept changes. Don’t nag and be free with your compliments.
6. Small changes do make a big difference. Bring in small changes in your lifestyle or the way you look. This will lead to more attention from your man. He will notice it and will love you even more. However the catch here is that you need to be sure of what he likes or will love and then make the changes accordingly. Your change should be different from your everyday look and that will grab his instant attention and interest. Like wear good lipsticks, get a haircut, wear a beautiful dress or tie your hair differently. These small changes go a long way to get your man s attention.
7. Be faithful. One way of making your man love you and want to be with you forever is showing him that you are faithful. Infidelity is one of the biggest reasons for breakups. Prove that you have eyes for him alone and he will do the same.
8. Offer stability. There’s just so much going on in the world today, and when it comes to your guy, he has a pretty hectic life that he’s trying to navigate through on a day-to-day basis. His job is threatening to lay off workers, his parents are constantly on his back about everything, and he’s in the midst of an argument with his best friend. But if he knows that he can go to you and feel safe and secure, it will make him fall even more in love with you.If you can become his stability and his safe place, you have just earned the key to his heart. Most men just want someone who will be constant, dependable and stable in their lives. Make sure you’re that person for him, and watch as your relationship changes overnight.
By becoming a source of emotional and physical stability for him, he will definitely fall in love with you. The bond the two of you have created is now so deep, it will take something real drastic to break it. Nice work, girl. Your guy is officially addicted to you.
9. Use words. Actions and words have immense power in proving your love for your man. Men do need to be appreciated and loved. The right word and action at the right time will make him go weak in the knees and he will be like putty in your hands. Genuine expressions of love can cement your relationship forever.
10. Don’t have skeletons in your closet
Keeping secrets from your man is a sure way of losing him. Be truthful and honest. The moment he thinks you are hiding things from him he will begin to pull away. If on the other hand you come clean with him – he will respect and adore you more.
11. Don’t push for commitment right away
Give your man the time he needs to make up his mind about you. All you have to do is make yourself indispensable and irreplaceable. Make him depend on you and at the same time show him that you are independent and confident of yourself.
12. Act what you feel. Sometimes, telling your boyfriend about what you feel is not enough. You might not see any changes, weeks, or even months after your lengthy conversation with him. He might think the scenario is nothing new to him. Now, to make him feel the weight of the issue, let your actions speak to him. Create a little distance. Don’t always call or text. Don’t always see him. Don’t always follow what he says. Giving him a cold shoulder will make him realize how serious you are about the issue. Also, not seeing him that often will make him long for you.
Remember, if he really loves you, he will not allow you to keep feeling unappreciated, unimportant, and unloved. He will make it up to you. He will make you feel important again.
13. Show how independent you are. One of the effective ways to make your boyfriend realize your importance is to show him how strong and independent you are. Loving him doesn’t mean making him your world. Show him that you can still do the things you love doing- even without him.