1. Focus on fixing your relationship, not ending it.
Some people struggle with staying faithful in their relationship because of the problems and challenges that they are currently facing. For others, being unfaithful is an escape to the sadness and frustrations that they experience in their own relationship.
If you are in a similar situation, choosing the right perspective is very important. For example, instead of losing hope and thinking of ending your relationship, why don’t you give your love another chance and actually do something to fix what’s broken?
2. Rediscover the activities that you used to enjoy together.
You can start by rediscovering the activities, the moments or even the places that remind you how your relationship used to be fun and exciting. You have plenty of options like traveling together, going to the restaurant you went to on your first date, or even just hanging with your most favorite people.
3. Consider how your actions can hurt or harm your partner.
Before deciding to do anything just to forget all the worries that you have in your current relationship, think first about how your actions can hurt or harm your partner’s feelings. Aside from the fact that it’s unfair and selfish, it won’t really solve anything. Instead, it would even add another reason why your relationship couldn’t seem to work.
4. Don’t mistake falling out of love for feelings of boredom.
Are you really not in love anymore or are you just bored? These are two totally different things and mistaking one for the other could lead you to the worst decision of your life.
By recognizing that your feelings for your partner are not actually the problem but your mere lack of exciting and enjoyable experiences, you’ll be able to know how to deal with the situation with more wisdom and understanding.
5. Make the decision of loving your partner every day.
Loving someone is a decision that you have to make every day. It’s a constant and consistent willingness to always choose that same person every time you are faced with a question, a doubt or a dilemma.
If you want to stay faithful to your partner, you have to choose them, every day, at every moment and every second that matters the most.
6. Don’t allow yourself to fall in love with someone else.
In relation to the previous section, you have to make sure that you know yourself too well – and you can control and keep your feelings in check. Don’t allow yourself to find happiness and love in someone else – especially if you know that you already have that person who is willing to give these to you, and more.
7. Be grateful for the person you have right now.
Staying faithful means appreciating the existence and the presence of that person who has decided to stay and be with you through all these years. You’re lucky to have met this kind of person so don’t do anything to take them for granted or make them feel that they are not enough.