Many relationships are complicated and people are the reasons why their relationship are complicated.
If you not ready for something don’t involve yourself in it, if you single reading this article if you not ready for relationship don’t accept or give anyone chance in your life, when you or your partner not ready things will never ever work.
In a relationship, if you noticed someone doesn’t love you, don’t force yourself on them, sometimes non matter what you doing for them, they’ll never value and appreciate it, worst part of it – you’ll always end up getting hurt, taken for granted.
No relationship is perfect, nobody is perfect, don’t expect perfect relationship but you make your relationship beautiful and full of happiness.
Find someone who is patient, forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often. Love someone who is humble, kind and empathetic. Not only with you but with a beggar on the street or a stranger. Common courtesy is important. Compassion is important. Kindness is important.
Find someone who loves you well. Someone who never belittles you. Even in the heat of an argument. Someone who is gentle with you but does not treat you like you are fragile. Someone who knows what you are capable of and celebrates those pieces of you. Not someone who is intimidated by your strength. Someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed.
Who are you falling in love with, do you know think they’re mature to understand what takes to love and make relationship work.
Maturity in a relationship is not expecting your partner to constantly be happy. Ups and downs are natural; giving each other space to feel heavy emotions while staying attentive and actively giving support is a sign of real love.
Relationships are not about fixing everything for each other, they are about experiencing joyful moments and tough times as a team and loving each other through the changes.
Sometimes your partner just needs to go through their own process to emerge lighter and freer than before.
If you want happy relationship, you need to work for it, only you but two of you, relationship need 100% of each other, don’t leave everything for your partner to constantly making every move in the relationship. I want you to understand that how you and your partner sharpening your relationship that’s how gonna be, if you want things to work out, it will work and last forever, it depends on two of you.
Last thing want to say is that love who loves you, stop loving those that doesn’t love and appreciate you, stay with who really want to stay with you, build empire with who believe in what you believe, someone who loves ways you love them, stop making sacrifices for those who doesn’t deserve it.
Your happiness is in your hands when come to relationships, your decisions determined your ways of happiness, be careful how you making decisions when come to relationships that involves your future and unborn kids. Who are you dating now, do you truly love the person, hmm do they truly love you???
There are things you need to know about relationship, need to know if you are in a serious relationship or not. Some relationships are complicated, some people are in a fun relationship thinking serious whereby their partner just catching fun. Read this carefully and share the link to your friends.
1. Communication is active, in a serious relationship both party call and text each other, nothing like waiting for your lover to call when you can call him, nothing like being stubborn to say HI to him when you really want to communicate with him. In a serious relationship both understands important of communicating with each other, there’s more fun than arguments and fights.
2. You’re their number one top priority and your partner is your number one top priority. If someone not your number one top priority, if someone treating like you not their priority, something is wrong, when something is serious, when someone doing something serious, they’ll value and appreciate it, they’ll make sure not lose it, they’ll place high value on it, they’ll place as number one priority because that’s what want to keep, if your dating partner doesn’t treat you special, something is wrong, take it or leave it.
3. He knows what he wants and you knows what you wants – the mission is cleared, everything has been made official, the relationship leading to marriage, he already planning future with you, deeply you planning future with him.
Listen not about saying it but by actions, he said want to marry you, what doing to make happen?? That’s what matters, don’t believe empty promises, actions speak louder than words, if you watch your lover deeply, surely you’ll discovered whether they’re deceiving you or not, be careful who you giving your heart and time to – heart break not a joke, one betray and disappointment can ruin your life. Don’t give room to it.
4. You not being hide, many relationships not open relationship. As a counselor have come across people who are in a relationship for 3 years without knowing their lovers close friends, parents and their lovers brothers and sisters. He said you in a serious relationship with him but you don’t know special people in his life, forgot about those drinking friends you know each time you guys hanged out, have introduced you those important people in his life.
That your partner – how does he or she address in public?
How your so called lover address you matters, don’t overlook it.
5. When you are in a serious relationship, they won’t take important decisions without seeking for your opinions, your opinions matters to him or her. They respect you, they treat you as who they place you as. Serious relationship and marriage almost close, when someone said they want something serious with you, it should be treated seriously not with jokes, don’t go into serious relationship with a joker.
6. He will be faithful to you and you’ll be faithful to him. Stop believing everyone cheats, if you believe everyone cheats that’s shows you a cheater too. If someone want something serious with you, they won’t cheat on you, they will respect you, they’ll do everything possible to avoid what will hurt you or end the relationship because you are what they wanted to keep in life. When someone keep cheating on you, they don’t love you, there’s nothing serious between two of you. If you know what seriousness means you won’t be taking some shit from who claimed you in serious relationship with.
7. They will show their maturity in everything, they’ll understand nobody is perfect, they will learn that forgiveness is important, they’ll understand that for relationship to work one need to make it work, no keeping malice, no taking someone love and feelings for granted, no taking advantage of partner cares and loyalty. They’ll understand that very important to respect each other and work hard to create the relationship wanted.
8. Nobody interest you aside your partner, everything about them make you happy, all you want to see him or her succeed, there’s no secret, there’s trust in the relationship, you guys truly trust each.
9. Another sign – when you in a serious relationship that will last forever, you’ll feel comfortable and safe, you’ll feel 100% free around your partner, your partner is your best friend, you guys are like cat and rat full of understanding, everything look beautiful and amazing, when there’s misunderstanding, two of you will sort out immediately.
10. Another big you’re in a serious relationship, lovers family treats you well, they love you, they show through their attitudes and actions, they want you to end up with their brother / sister. It very important your lover family to accept you and love you, you’ll easily fit in the family.
11. You don’t run away from the bad times. Last but not the least, you are not just there in good times but you also are present during the rainy days. You don’t run away from them and instead, you become your partner’s refuge and strength.