1. Make him feel like a hero
If you make your man feel like a hero, he’ll miss you like crazy whenever you’re apart.
What do I mean by ‘hero’?
There’s a new concept in relationship psychology generating a lot of buzz at the moment. It’s called the hero instinct.
And it explains why men fall in love with a women and who they fall in love with.
I first learned about it from my friend Pearl Nash, who also writes for Hack Spirit. The hero instinct completely transform her own love life.
Simply put, men want to be your hero. This drive is deeply rooted in their biology. Since humans first evolved, men have wanted to provide for and protect the woman they love.
If you can trigger the hero instinct in your man, it will make him miss you like crazy when you’re not around. Because you’re providing him something he craves.
2. Be the first to end the conversation
After making him wait, he will eventually contact you if he really likes you. Always be the one to hang up the phone and let him be the one to send that last text.
The key is to keep him wanting more of you. Because you ended the conversation, it will make him contact you first because he feels the need to continue your conversation.
3. Leave him craving for more
It’s like our favorite food. When we get a taste of something delicious, we want to taste it again.
But here is the catch, if you always get that taste even how delicious it is, you will lose interest.
Men want what they can’t have. So give him a taste but do not give it all.
Make it challenging for him. In this way, he will appreciate you more.
4. Just Be You
And lastly, just be yourself. Do not pretend you’re someone else especially when you are together.
Create your own unique self that he will love and can’t resist and that is the personality of a strong, kind and independent woman.
Go crazy with him, be spontaneous, and have fun together. What guy in his right mind can resist these personalities?
And when you are apart from each other, he can compare you with other girls and he will realize how unique and beautiful you are.
And being apart, he will miss you because he knows you are definitely one of a kind.
5. Compliment Him
Compliment him every now and then. Don’t buy into the whole idea of withholding your affection and attraction for your boyfriend. You always have to be able to compliment your boyfriend. You always have to let him know that you still appreciate who he is and that your love for him is secure. It lets him know that you don’t take him for granted.
