Things need know about broken relationship and moving on with your life.
Sometimes beautiful relationship can broke down, you’ll get hurt and depressed.
It’s not love that hurt you but one particular human being, don’t generate things.
End of a relationship can make you feel devastating. It can be hard to sleep, eat, or concentrate, yes may frustrate you. The things you once thought were fun don’t appeal anymore. Depending on how long you were together or how intense the emotional attachment was, it may even feel like you don’t know what direction your life will take now. Everything will suck and gonna take time for you to be healed.
Many people don’t truly understand what it means to ‘move on’ after a broken relationship.
Some will claim to move on, but they are still crying behind closed does.
Some claim to move on by going around talking ill off the person they dated.
Some, to them, moving on simply means going into another relationship.
So, if they say I have moved on; indirectly they are saying ‘I have found someone else or am in another relationship’
But non of these is moving on.
So, if any of these is the case with you after a broken relationship, it means you’ve not moved on. If you can’t move on without having to enter into another relationship, rubbishing peoples name or stop having sleepless night, if you can’t survive on your own without having to build your life and happiness around human beings, then you are faraway from your realities and yourself. You are actually living people’s life forth or they are living yours for you.
First you need to understand something, have to forgive your partner.
Forgive your partner for what they have done to hurt you. When they accept your apology, you should accept theirs as well. Of course, if there have been abusive behaviors exhibited in your partner towards you, forgiving them and letting them back in is not the best solution. This is a completely different situation that needs to be addressed differently. But, if your partner said something that hurt your feelings or made a mistake and they genuinely apologize, try to forgive them. Let them know that you forgive them and that you appreciate all that they do for you. Sometimes all your partner needs are to know they are loved and wanted.
It takes courage and emotional maturity to move on after a broken relationship. Moving on actually takes some time because you are trying to heal and recover yourself, so what are you doing in another relationship just a week, a month or two after a broken relationship?
You are trying to prove a point? Right? To show the other person that you are not as bad as he or she thought, perhaps someone else that is better than him or her has considered you.
It’s ignorance because you are risking your heart and happiness the more. You are exposing yourself to danger. You must not become lose or vulnerable just because you had a broken relationship. It doesn’t mean you should open the door for anything that comes your way in the name of ‘filling the vacuum’.
Take time and heal, recover yourself, grow and learn more.
If you did not learn from your past broken relationships, your next relationship will be no difference from the past even if the new person happened to be better than the former because your destroyed hearts will overwhelm your conscience and sense of judgement. You may not be able to see the difference in the new person and may not know how to keep that relationship.
Always learn to be self reliable and stop building your happiness around people, situation or circumstances. Then you will realise true Joy. Say “No” to emotional disaster and blackmail.
Moving on not easy but don’t go into relationship and still in love with your ex, you’ll never be happy, let go of your past, try move on before going into another relationship.